Beautiful Red

Our journey to adopt Xiu Dan from Zhangshuo, Jiangxi Province, China.

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

Not quite bonded

Well, Xiu Dan is doing pretty well. We've spent all day around the hotel, just hanging out together. We've found that Xiu Dan is definitely a daddy's girl -- to a slightly frustrating extent. She shrieks every time I leave the room, or pass her to Kori, and she clings to me with the same vise-like grip she used to stay attached to the orphanage director yesterday morning. 

We've also discovered that Xiu Dan has a temper. She's quite assertive, and gets frustrated when we can't figure out exactly what it is that she wants. Boy can she scream. In the words of Strongbad, she's like a Japanese cartoon: her "mouth is extremely small when it's closed, and ridiculously huge when it's open." The only thing she's missing is bright blue hair and really cool robot boots.

Kori's feeling some better, but her throat still hurts a lot. No one else has gotten it -- so far, so good. We're going to go out to eat in a while and then give Xiu Dan her first bath with us. We're trying to get as much skin contact with her to encourage the bonding process, especially between her and her mom.

6 Comments:

  • At 5/09/2006 04:13:00 AM, Blogger teddy dellesky said…

    glad to hear all is going well. we miss you and can't wait to see y'all.

    -the dellesky clan

    p.s. great Strongbad reference

     
  • At 5/09/2006 04:50:00 AM, Blogger chelsea said…

    hi guys... we've been following closely. will pray for supernatural grace on xiu dan and mom. she is lovely and she couldn't have a better family to help her through this. remember... God chose both of you to give to each other and we know his grace is sufficient for what xiu dan is going through.
    will continue to check in. thanks for your prayers for us too.
    chelsea and chris

     
  • At 5/09/2006 09:39:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Never seen that cartoon, but I love the description.

    Beautiful Red--definitely full of life.

    What a sweetheart, your Xiu Dan. Blessings on your bonding.

    Love,
    Carolyn

     
  • At 5/09/2006 11:39:00 AM, Blogger John said…

    Congratulations to you all! We are so happy for you and love the postings. It takes us back a "few years". God Bless. J&B C

     
  • At 5/09/2006 07:18:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    A great set of stories and posts and pics...love them all! Can't wait to introduce her to Ava--a chunky friend with a huge wardrobe--LOL! CAn't wait to see you all--pray safety and sleep on the trip home. Miss you! Beth, John , Jack & Ava

     
  • At 5/09/2006 07:54:00 PM, Blogger Lyndi said…

    i'm late on this, but, she's soooo beautiful!!!
    what a sweetie! i can't wait to meet her.

    and wow, looking at the family pix, it's like you're officially a "big" family now!
    prayers for ALL of you - (esp. sick mama!)
    lyndi

     

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