Beautiful Red

Our journey to adopt Xiu Dan from Zhangshuo, Jiangxi Province, China.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

We have pooped!

For a while there, we thought that Xiu Dan would never poop. Three days in, and she was still feces-free. We surmised that all of the solid food we had given her was going directly into thigh production, but apparently she does have a fully functional colon.

We did a little research about Chinese potty training, and we discovered that we can 'facilitate elimination' by setting her on the potty, lifting her knees and making "ca-ca-ca-ca-ca-ca" noises. Amazing, these Chinese babies. No wonder she was grumpy all day. We didn't know how to poop her. After about 10 seconds of "ca-ca-ca," she started to grunt, screw up her face, and well, you get the rest. Woohoo. We don't have to go the suppository route. Ew.

Anyway, Xiu Dan is now asleep, and the boys are getting ready for bed. We had a pretty good dinner tonight. Eating out in Nanchang has been more challenging than anywhere else we've been in China. Neither the menus nor the waiters speak English. Some have pictures, but at one restaurant, we actually had to do animal sounds to indicate what kind of meat we wanted. We now bring along a handy Chinese phrase book, which actually works better than just looking at the menu pictures. Tonight, for instance, we just looked and pointed, and were a little surprised to find that what looked like sliced beef, was actually sliced intestines of some sort. Tasty, but kind of gross. Also, the little pictures didn't show the chopped up frogs ended up in our fried noodles. No problem. We're all exceeding our recommended caloric intake anyway.

Pray that Xiu Dan attaches fully to Kori; it's flattering for me, but a bit of a drag. I'm tired of holding her all of the time, and Kori isn't getting all of the love she'd like to receive from the girl. Oh, well. We have lots of time to work on that.

At some point, I'll try to write down some of my thoughts about China as a nation/society. A lot of great things, a lot of not-so-great. That having been said, we're in love with the country and its people despite its shortcomings. To slightly modify the old saying about churches, "If you find a perfect country, don't go there -- you'll screw it all up."

7 Comments:

  • At 5/10/2006 06:53:00 AM, Blogger Susan said…

    The restaurant in the Gloria has a fabulour frog soup. really I avoided the spines but the legs are pretty tastey. At breakfast check out the french toast. It has peanut butter in it. There is a great restaurant down the street about a block. If you walk out the lobby and head to the right. It's down the street about a block. You really can't tell it's a restaurant (kind of looks like an office building). There will be a woman standing either right outside the door or just inside at a desk. The restaurant is upstairs.

    Is the playroom still next to the indoor pool? The pool is cold btw.

    Our guide took us to a bookstore which was very interesting. I was able to buy a bunch of children's books there and some music.

     
  • At 5/10/2006 07:51:00 AM, Blogger John McCollum said…

    Rungirl,

    Thanks for the tips! We discovered the peanut butter, but haven't had the frog soup at the Gloria yet.

    I think we've been to the restaurant to which you're referring. It is good.

    And yes, the pool is definitely cold. After a few minutes in there, I could cut glass with my nipples.

    (How's that for an uneccesarily graphic word picture?)

    -- John

     
  • At 5/10/2006 07:59:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kori,
    I have these mental pictures of us at Polaris mall in the restroom and the looks on everyone's faces when the sounds of s-s-s-s-s-s-s, ca-ca-ca-ca-ca come from inside your and Xiu Dan's stall.
    Mom

     
  • At 5/10/2006 08:58:00 AM, Blogger Karen said…

    the whole clingy issue is so hard. simon was that way in that only *i* could hold him, he would not go to randy. what made the difference was just being very intentional about randy and he having time without me being around. i know that once you guys get home and it's 'all kori, all day long' she will really GET IT that mommy is way cool. maybe till then you guys could have some times where you take the boys out and it's just xiu dan and mommy time at the hotel? just a thought. anyways, it's gotta be frustrating for the both of you. i'm praying about it for you.

    good news about the pooping! and you didn't even have to change a dirty diaper! wooo!

     
  • At 5/10/2006 09:46:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I'm really looking forward to your thoughts on China - your pictures are enough to make anyone want to go there tomorrow.

     
  • At 5/11/2006 06:15:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    you know, this early potty training is actually a pretty normal occurrance around the world, and is beginning to catch on a bit here in the states. do a google search for "elimination communication". :)

    she is so darn cute, i can hardly stand it!

    -patti

     
  • At 5/11/2006 06:24:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I love this entry! It is totally John McCollum! Have another great day and come home soon! Pak, your friends really miss you and I can't wait for one of those hugs!
    Kori, hope you are doing better. The bonding thing will come. Just relax!

    See ya all!
    Linda Hall

     

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